About Us
“O young men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding one’s chastity.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5065)and Muslim (1400).
MMS was established to encourage the generation of today to get married the correct Islamic way inshaAllah, which is the purest way. We have provided this matrimonial service that holds onto Islamic values and follows the Sunna of our beloved Prophet s.a.w. The Quran verse and hadith below make it clear that it is important to follow the Quran and Sunna and that if one does so, paradise will be promised to them inshaAllah.
Abu Hurayrah (RA) reported that the Prophet (SAW) said: "All of my Ummah will enter Paradise except those that refuse. Those who were with him (the Sahaabah) said, "And who will refuse?" He (SAW) said: Whoever obeys me will enter Paradise and whoever disobeys me will have refused." (Sahih Al-Bukhari)
Our service is for those who do not have the community and family support to find a suitable spouse. The website is a safe forum for people to upload their profiles so that they have a larger chance of finding a marriage partner. Many women do not get proposals, simply because their families do not know people or they do not live in Muslim communities, so MMS gives single women especially the chance to be acknowledged and known by the community. It can be difficult to find the right kind of partner due to many cultural and Islamic restrictions in the US in particular, as well as most people being very shy or reluctant to approach the other for marriage.
MMS has been set up for single Muslims who are finding it difficult to meet a spouse in a halal environment, those who do not wish to join open marriage events or free mix in social events. MMS encourages men to approach women in a halal way through the Wali first. It will solve many problems that are caused when being able to freely communicate with each other without consulting or involving the Wali beforehand. We are trying to encourage men to make the wali the first point of contact in the marriage process and this has many benefits. It saves a lot of time, is very respectful towards the girl's family, is Islamic and also proves ones sincerity and intentions. Being able to freely communicate with each other beforehand results in many emotional attachments and problems. The Prophet s.a.w encouraged men to speak to the wali of a woman he is interested in for marriage and then to see her face to face to see if they are compatible and to take it from there if both like each other.
By getting married, you will be protecting yourself, lowering your gaze and closing the door to one of the greatest means by which the shaytaan deceives people. You may not feel the seriousness of that now, but fitnah may come from places a person does not realize, so you should be keen to close the door before it is opened.
Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (20/421): "What is required is to hasten to get married, and no young man or young woman should delay marriage for the sake of studies and work, because marriage does not prevent any such thing. It is possible for a young man to get married in order to protect his religious commitment and morals, and enable him to lower his gaze. Marriage serves many purposes, especially in this day and age. Because delaying it is harmful for both young women and young men, every young man and every young woman should hasten to get married if there is a man who is compatible with the woman, and if a man can find the right woman."